Happy Self Love V Day!

HAPPY SELF LOVE VALENTINES DAY!!!!

Here is my Bravissimo set I got myself which I utterly adore – enough to put it online for the world to see with no makeup and that weird bit of arm/boob/back fat that makes my stomach flip with horror.

I didn’t think I’d ever get to a place where seeing myself in the mirror with lumps and bumps, scratches and scars wouldn’t make me immediately hide under layers of clothing or jokes. It’s been the LONGEST journey of self-acceptance and one that is ongoing.

Every Valentines – bar one – I’ve been single. We get told day in day out that we should be OUT looking for love and being a pair but I’ve always wanted to know that my love was able to go IN before I tried to give it out. Because in the words of Ru Paul ‘If you don’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?!’

I’ll be shaking my self loving booty with my Booty Bass fam TONIGHT at The Plough where we’re joined by 2 new beautiful Booties – Tino DJ & Hannah Moylan!

Singles, couples, cats – let’s have a Valentine’s full of booty, love and self acceptance! And on that note, I’m so happy to have been asked to contribute to this video created by Love Saves The Day supporting mental health charities Off The Record and Mind

https://www.instagram.com/tv/B8jBgmeB1G1/?igshid=jc0sw7irg3ir

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